Do you realize that you may place expectations and demands on others to fulfill your needs. This happens, for example, when you think that the fulfillment of your needs depends on others. When you place expectations or demands on others to fulfill your needs, this creates forcing currents that prevent the very fulfillment of your expectations. Can you identify situations when you may have done, or still are doing this?
Do you occasionally find yourself focusing on what you want to avoid (negative motivation) rather than on what you truly want to accomplish? (positive motivation)? For example, do you wish for prosperity for its own sake, for the benefits it will bring to you? Or do you wish to be spared of scarcity?
How dependent on others are you to fulfill your emotional needs?
Are you aware that a part of you may have remained a child, while this inner child of yours ignores the rights and powers of your adult state?
Make notes on your conclusions.